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Please don’t leave your personal lives to luck or chance!

You wouldn’t do that with your career. If someone gave you an easy step-by-step program showing you exactly how to achieve success and wealth in your professional life, would you follow it? Of course you would. I’m giving you the same chance in your personal life. Based on all the years of teaching men [...]

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No Sign of Life

One year after the course for women, the first men’s class was ready to begin. As the men came into the class, I sensed an uncomfortable feeling permeating the room. I tried to make small talk while we waited for everyone to arrive, but none of them were receptive, thirty-five men, all cool and aloof, [...]

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What About Us?

I had been teaching my Light His Fire course for women for several years before I finally decided to organize a class for men. My initial reason for the men’s class was to satisfy all those women who asked, “Don’t you have a course for men?” or “How do you expect me to take this class [...]

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Be true to yourself!

Respect yourself. Commit yourself to the belief that you are the most important person in the world. If you don’t have self-respect, chances are no one else will respect you either. Self-respect comes from being true to yourself, from feeling good about who you are. It comes from letting other people know how you truly [...]

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Speak Your Truth

Many women don’t confront their mates because they’re afraid of driving them away. These women don’t want to “make waves.” They believe peace and harmony are insurance against the threat of being abandoned by their mates. Interviews with men reveal quite the opposite, however. They say there is nothing worse than being on a date [...]

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King for a Day

1. Send him on a “Love Hunt.” This is like an old-fashioned treasure hunt, where further instructions are waiting at each destination. If you are very clever, you can make the instructions cryptic, so that it takes some imagination to decipher the clues.2. Have a note delivered to your mate explaining the rules, and telling [...]

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Romance is an Acquired Skill

Romance is an acquired skill that has to be taught. Although falling in love might just happen, having a loving relationship does not. Having a loving relationship requires nurturing; and it requires skill and knowledge. You can either lead by “telling” or you can lead by “showing”. In my opinion, leading by example is the [...]

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Your Thoughts Create Your Mood

If you are frequently depressed and there is nothing physically wrong with you, you probably need to change how you think. Whether you realize it or not, your thoughts and your beliefs are largely responsible for how you feel and what happens in your life. The belief that there is nothing you can do about [...]

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DO NOT put off your vacation.

Let me tell you a true story about an eye-opening experience my husband and I had on a cruise to Tahiti. We had stopped at Bora Bora for lunch at one of the most beautiful hotels in the world. We started talking with an elderly couple at a nearby table and learned that they had [...]

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Your needs are different than his!

One of the most important differences I’ve found between men and women is that while men need to know you find them sexually attractive in order to give you the emotional fulfillment you crave, women must feel emotionally fulfilled before they can react to their mates’ physical needs. So there you have it. – the ultimate [...]

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